Tuesday, 24 September 2024

In Love?

If you truly love someone, you won't dare to stare at your dearest one.
Because you know, once you do it, it will be so hard for you to stop, to tame the fame and keep you sane. You will lost control and go further.

If you truly love someone, you will try to understand.
By watching, by asking, by listening, even by reading lots of books -- though, you're not a big fan of it.
Because you know, being misunderstood is painful for your loved one.

If you truly love someone, you will experience death multiple times.
The death of your false self, the death of the ego.
Yes, it hurts so bad when you're bleeding, trying to kill your false self.
But only by killing your false self, you can live in peace and harmony with your beloved.
You can make your loved one feel safe and comfortable with you.

If you truly love someone, you will love yourself too.
Because you know, you also need to be loved by yourself to be the best version of yourself.
And you realize that the best gift you can give to someone you love, is the best version of yourself.

If you truly love someone, you won't wait until it's perfect. Because you know, love is an art to love the imperfections perfectly. We don't need to be perfect to love and to be loved.

If you truly love someone, you will make your baby feel it without questioning your sooth. You will give everything your baby needs without being asked or make her/him beg -- time, acceptance, trust, understanding, respect, clarity, appreciation, admiration, pleasure -- everything she/he needs to feel loved.

If you truly love someone, you won't let your fear holds you back. Because you know, God will always help and guide you. 

If you truly love someone, you won't try to find someone else to replace your beloved when you're apart, when your connection is not okay. Because you know, your beloved is irreplaceable. She/he is perfectly made for you, the one and only.